This is my own personal opinion about animals within a family setting and the benefits they can bring to a household.
Every child needs a pet.
As a child, I loved to interact with animals. Whether it was outside playing with or walking the dog. Teasing the cat until it would finally pounce and attack the toys in front of it. Handling the hamsters or simply watching them run in their wheels or scaling the great heights of their cage (for a small a rodent). Right down to enjoying the excitement of fish when they knew it was feeding time.
I was lucky to have all of these wonderful creatures in my life growing up. The fond memories I have of each and every one of them, is with me to this day and even though they maybe gone, they will never be forgotten.
Back to the topic in mind.
Over the years I’ve always heard one question asked again and again by various children: Please can we have a (insert animal)?
First of all, you maybe reading this and thinking the answer would be of course no. Which to begin with is the right answer to the child. But that answer should not be the end of discussion.
The initial ‘No’, teaches them that it is something that can’t be just bought on a whim. Circumstances need to be taken in to consideration and the overall reason why you said ‘No’ in the first place needs to be addressed.
What are your reasons for not wanting a pet?
Some reasons could be, you don’t want that type of animal in question. The time commitment. The thought of the mess and the extra work created. Allergies. Expense.
Whatever the reason, No should not be the final answer.
Hear me out:
I shall use my sister as an example here. Her daughters were constantly pestering her for various pets and her answer was always No.
Dog? No
Cat? No
Hamster? No
Rat? Most certainly No
Being a crazy animal lady, I asked her why she wouldn’t have a pet for the girls? She said ‘because I don’t want to.’ And she couldn’t be more honest and truthful than that.
Not one to investigate half a mystery, I furthered my query and asked her. ‘But if you did eventually give in and allow the girls to have a pet, what would you want them to have?’
Without hesitation, she blurted out ‘A tortoise, that would be the only pet that I would have in my house.’
And on that note, not wanting my nieces to go without a pet to grow up with. I asked her if she wanted George to come live with her.
Who’s George you ask?
George here is a horsefield or Russian tortoise, whom I purchased at about the age of 8. He lived with me for several years. The reason I asked her if she wanted George was firstly for the girls and secondly, I was at that point living in student accommodation and unfortunately had no garden on the property. So for George and myself it was a win win. He would still be in the family and get the outdoor life he needed.
Luckily, she instantly said yes.
The girls finally had a pet and to date, they still talk about the funny antics of George (I will talk more about George at a later date).
In this instance a simple, easy care animal enlightened and enriched the lives of a family who may not have had a pet.
Now take a moment to read through this list.
Things to consider when getting a child a pet:
- What animal/s would I be happy to have in my home or garden?
- What animal/s could be a part of and benefit he household?
- What space do you have to accommodate any of these animals you are considering? Is it enough space?
- What mess level do you mind clearing up after?
- What energy level does the household have?
- Have you researched the care and needs of the animals you’ve considered getting?
- How much time can you spend caring for the animal?
- Is the animal age appropriate?
- Can you afford the up keep of the animals?
- Would you mind if you ended up being the majority carer of the animal?
- Life expectancy of the animal in question?
All of these questions are essential to the overall well being of any animal to come into your care. Planning is a vital part.
Benefits of having a pet for a child.
A pet can bring forth many benefits and lessons for a child.
- A pet can promote extra physical activities, encouraging them to go outside either to play or explore.
- A pet can promote social skills through interaction, conversations and even sharing.
- A pet can heighten emotional experiences through love and loss, excitement and joy.
- A pet can encourage learning through simple husbandry and wanting to know more about certain species. Can even aid artistic and literary skills.
- A pet can teach responsibility; through caring for them, tending to their needs, taking on age appropriate jobs like cleaning them out, feeding them, walking them, playing with them.
No matter what animal you decide to join your family, if planned and considered properly, a child will have no end of joy from owning their very own special animal.
Thank you for reading. I will soon post my top ten animals for starter pets and why.